Tag: attenders

  • Letter #49 (First Impressions–2)

    Dear Small Church,

         In Letter #48 I introduced the idea of creating a first impression based on the facility and general atmosphere we want to create for a first-time visitor.  This letter goes into the actual worship service and how it can impact the first impression. 

         We want visitors to return and become regular attenders and, hopefully, integral parts of our ministry as we endeavor to fulfill our calling as a group of Christ’s disciples.  Therefore, we must determine a few things about the service that will influence their first, second or third impressions of our congregation and ministry. 

         Our primary questions deal with why we attend worship services in the first place.  Are we attending as participants to give praise and honor to God, to minister to each other and to receive ministry from the body of Christ?  Or are we attending as spectators to be encouraged through religious entertainment and an uplifting message from a motivational speaker called a pastor?  If a visitor attends for the first question’s answers, he/she will be disappointed if he/she experiences the answers to the second question.  The service must be geared to fulfill the answers to the first question, not the second one.

         According to information from Gallup polls and Barna Research Group trends, people who attend worship services are seeking a real encounter with God.  They want to experience God’s presence in their lives.  They want to find out if God truly cares about them and can be active in their affairs.  Essentially, people are looking for a spiritual connection they feel is missing in their lives, and they have decided to go to a worship service to see if that connection can be found there. 

         That being said, we must prayerfully (Notice that word “Prayerfully”) approach how a service flows, what is included in a worship service, and what our intended outcome is for the ending portion of the service.  If we have no spiritual goal for why we are doing what we are doing, if we do not have a direction of worship and outcome expected for the culmination of the service, we will not arrive at the end of the service with any appreciable positive spiritual results.  (Please understand the Holy Spirit can override our lack of spiritual preparations and create a great spiritual experience for visitors in spite of our inadequacies and poor choices.  But you don’t need to expect Him to do that on a regular basis.)

         Allow me to caution you here—since you are advertising your worship service schedules, please be prepared for the services when they occur.  Worship involves important aspects of the Christian life.  To throw something together at the last minute without praying or seeking God’s guidance and anointing is perpetuating a travesty on the disciples who gather for worship.  I have to admit I have been guilty of that travesty, and the outcome was not what it could have been had everyone involved in the service had come prepared for their part in the overall experience. 

         As you decide on what needs to be included in the service, remember that worship involves much more than just singing.  Offering prayers, supplications and intercessions to God is involved.  Waiting on God to speak to hearts is involved.  Generosity in tithing and giving offerings is involved.  Hearing the Word of God read and explained in sermons is involved.  Giving testimonies to God’s working in a life is involved.  Encouraging each other is involved.  Giving thanks to God is involved.  Sometimes eating together is involved.  Attending as participants, not just spectators, in worship is involved.  These concepts are just the tip of the iceberg that makes up worship.

         Allow me to share a story about one area of worship from a missionary I know.  He serves in a region where Christian voices are often silenced through social pressure, traditions, laws and even violence.  His ministry involves radio and TV programs that are produced and aired over stations that almost exclusively promote that area’s predominate religion.  However, he never mentions that religion in his broadcasts.  He only talks about Jesus and what Jesus can do in a life that is dedicated to His teachings.  He does not condemn, slander or otherwise denigrate the dominant religion.  His ministry is quite successful and reaches several million listeners and viewers weekly.

         Why the story?  We all have varying preferences when it comes to dress codes, music styles, scriptural translations, building decorations, service times and lengths, traditional activities and any number of other topics that are revealed through our preferences.  If all we do is condemn someone who has different preferences while we are supposed to be involved in worship, we are probably going to make a negative first impression on people. 

         Biblical doctrines speak for themselves and must remain constant in our worship services.  Those are not negotiable.   Preferences, on the other hand, can change over time.  Be sure your worship services focus on the Father, the Son and the Holy Spirit and not on preferences.

         Keep in mind that a worship service is an opportunity for someone to repent of sins and ask for forgiveness.  It is an opportunity for someone to be born again spiritually.  Make every effort to give that someone the chance to see Jesus, the Father and the Holy Spirit working in Christ’s church, for His people and through His people.  If you do that, the worship experience will have fulfilled its purpose.

         A worship service that directs visitors to experiencing God in the fullness of His glory and power will make a good first impression.  Pray that that is your church’s first impression on visitors.

    Sincerely,

    A Small Church Pastor

  • Letter #46 (Revival)

    Dear Small Church Pastor,

         Many pastors schedule a yearly “revival” during a particular season.  Some contact an evangelist, possibly the same one each year, to have that person come to encourage and motivate the congregation.  Others bring in two or more speakers for a series of worship services that will hopefully challenge the congregation to spiritually walk closer to God.  Unfortunately, a few rely on revival services to bring in new attenders who they hope will stay connected after the revival.  They get the new people to attend by inviting well-known speakers who have dynamic ministries established in other geographical areas.

         With such a variety of reasons for scheduling revivals, a couple of serious questions need to be asked before one is scheduled:  First, “Why have a revival?”  Second, “Who should dictate when the revival needs to occur?”

         The simplistic answer to question number one is that what seems to have died out spiritually needs to be revived, renewed and rekindled, like a physical fire that is only glowing embers needs to be rekindled with fresh fuel in order to burn brightly again.  The Holy Spirit anoints people to be evangelists for the sake of encouraging, motivating and challenging the body of Christ.  These special ministers are one of the people gifts given to the assembly of believers in Jesus by God.  Their function is to do that rekindling of the fire of the Holy Spirit in a congregation.  And thank God that He has anointed individuals to do this very service for the sake of the body of Christ.

         What about that second question above?  Who should initiate a revival, whether it is set for one service, three nights, a week, two weeks or open ended to last as long as is needed.  (Those last two durations do still occur in other countries, just seldom in this country nowadays.) 

         Allow me to give a couple of examples of revivals that were started in the past as a point of reference to the answer for question number two.

         #1—The story is told of a pastor who was impressed by the Holy Spirit while preparing for a Sunday morning service to simply read the entire book of Ephesians to his congregation and then to open the altar for prayer.  The following Sunday morning, when it came time for the sermon, the pastor asked everyone to open their Bibles to Ephesians Chapter 1, Verse 1 and to read along silently as he read aloud.  When he completed the final verse of Ephesians, he said it was time to pray and that the altar was open to anyone who felt it necessary to talk to God to make sure a right relationship existed between them and God. 

         The altar filled with weeping, groaning, repentant people who were revived spiritually through the public reading of the letter to the church at Ephesus.  The repentant attitude among the congregation lasted for weeks as the Holy Spirit revived His fire in their hearts.  (This is not fiction; it actually occurred.)

         #2—My wife’s best BFF ever, who has since this story passed into the presence of her Savior, related that once their pastor had announced he was stepping down from his ministry at that location.  The church leadership began a search for a new pastor, but a new pastor had not been chosen when it came time for their current pastor to leave.  They assured him the congregation would be okay with his leaving and continued the pastoral search process.

         That process included having prospective pastors minister for one or more Sunday services, while the leaders handled the remaining services and activities of the congregation.  During the process, through no planning by the congregational leaders, the members or the prospective pastors, a revival among the members broke out, flowing from week to week in every service held, regardless of who was leading it.  The revival spirit remained in the congregation for several months, with the congregation increasing in number and spiritual maturity, even in the absence of having a definite pastor.  When the new pastor was selected, he arrived to a congregation in full revival mode.

         Now, for my answer to question number two–It is my opinion a revival should be set up when the Holy Spirit indicates it should be.  The only way I know of learning when to schedule a revival is to pray, talk to God, listen intently to His voice and be open to opportunities for revival to arrive through God’s timing, the guidance of the Holy Spirit and, when appropriate, God’s evangelists.  It has been my experience that a “Holy Ghost Revival” that is initiated by the Holy Spirit will do wonders for the spiritual, and possibly physical, growth of a congregation.

    Sincerely,

    A Small Church Pastor